Saturday, 12 October 2013

Scars.

You see that girl smiling? Do you see that girl laughing as if her life couldn't get any better? See that girl being there for her friend to give her a shouler to cry on? But, do you see the scars on her hand? Do you see the darker side of her? See the pain she's been through? Without even knowing her, you will judge her. Well judge her all you can, but what she nees now is not your judgement but your hand, your words which will make her believe that, yes, one day, Everything will be just fine. You can be one of those people who will choose to judge her, make fun for her, make fun of her scars. Say all she wants is attention. Or, you can choose to be the one, who will go and sit next to her and give her your shouler to cry on, give her your presence to feel glad about, give her your support to rely on, give her yourself to trust on.
Look at that girl there, lying in there with pain and despair. Look at the girl there, waiting for someone to come and approach her, ask her, sympathize for her, care for her, talk to her. Those scars she has on her hands are not out of habit, not because she's mentally sick but because she's emotionally sick. She's been shouting out loud with no one listening to her, she has been shedding tears having no one to wipe them off for her, all what she wants is someone to be there for her and whisper those magical words "Everything will be fine."
What she demands for is too much? She wants to be happy, is demanding for happiness wrong? All what she demands for is people to know her an not judge her based on someone elses judgement, all she wants is to smile, is this too much she asks for?

The world is deceptive, they laugh with you at your success and also laugh at your misery. You can let people make you or break you. The worlds a stage where you have to present yourself, just like a show, its not necessary that everyone will like you, but, there will be few who will and those are the people you need. Because these people will look past all your mistakes, will choose to be there with you all the time.
The girl now, looks at those scars, they dont make her any weaker but make her stronger. Stronger to face the world everyday, stronger to face her problems everyday.

Harming yourself is not a soultion, not an escape. It is just a cowardly way to face the situation. Anytime you loose hope or want someone, Im there for you, ready to whisper those words for you "Everything will be fine."